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Consent: The Line Between BDSM and Abuse

Consent: The Line Between BDSM and Abuse

Some people consider it insane to jump out of a perfectly good airplane. Some people love that thrill and consciously choose to do so. We would not accept someone pushing a person out of an airplane--parachute or not--if they did not want to skydive, but as a society we allow for adults to make those sorts of decisions for themselves. The same difference applies when discussing the difference between sexual abuse and a BDSM relationship--making a conscious choice and consenting to the exchange of power.NotThat addressed the issue of consent at length in a recent Sexpective Power Exchange podcast. Consent is the foundation on which BDSM is built. To be fair, many of the activities that BDSM partners engage in would be considered "abuse" by an external viewer--especially someone who is "vanilla" and lacks the context of the BDSM power exchange. What separates it from abuse is the fact that the people engaged in those activities have negotiated up front what is acceptable and what is not, and consent has…
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